



Real Bangkok is exhausting, let me tell you! Mark and I made the mistake of being tourists today, and ended up hot, exhausted and with raging headaches… No fun! We realised a few things today – that it’s way too hot to be out and about during the hottest time of the day, that traveling between places often takes longer than the actual activity you’re traveling towards and, most importantly, that there is a vast difference between tourists and travelers, and that we can’t be tourists or we’ll wear ourselves out…
I was sitting, this evening, on the verandah of the place we’re staying at, which is right in the heart of traveler city – the Khao San district in Bangkok. I must have sat there for over an hour, closer to two, while Mark was working on the computer, and as I sat I watched all the hundreds of different types of people walking past. There were locals selling things, locals buying things, locals driving tuk tuks and scooters and taxis, foreigners from every country you could imagine, hippies, hobos, smartly dressed Westerners and everything in between. I also saw a couple of dogs and a few kids playing… It was fascinating. Because as I sat there I could differentiate immediately between those who were tourists and those who were travelers. The tourists walked really quickly, looking around in a dazed kind of way, and were usually dressed in the clothing and jewellery for sale on the side of the road. They have a frenzied air about them, as if there’s not enough time to fit in everything (usually, I suppose, because there isn’t enough time to take everything in!)
The travelers, on the other hand, walked slowly and seemed to absorb what was happening around them. They were a lot more chilled and seemed centered in their own space, and were mostly wearing old, comfortable clothes. Mark and I aren’t quite there yet (well, apart from the old clothes!) but we’re getting there…
So much of this first stage of the journey is about learning how to travel. It feels like we’re still traveler rookies (because we are!) and we’re definitely being charged higher prices for taxis and food than we should be, but I can sense that we’ll get it. We’ll learn the language. We have to – we’re on the road for such a long time… And if we try to be tourists the whole time, we’ll end up exhausted and frazzled, which is no fun.
So today we realised that we have to take it easy and absorb as much as we can, rather than rush to try and fit everything in. A valuable lesson, I think!
We also realised that although this is technically autumn (and the rainy season) it is HOT here in Bangkok. Crazy hot. And there isn’t a freezer in the hotel we’re staying, so I’ve entrusted my cooler bag and insulin to a fridge (I hope it’s cold enough). I tried using ice and it melted in a few hours. Did I mention that it was rather hot??
That said, Bangkok is a crazy cool place to visit. Highlights so far include:
- Taking the water taxi on the river, which is ridiculously cheap and ferries you between major spots while letting you soak up some of the riverside sights
- Eating delicious freshly-cooked Thai food from the street, especially the pad thai (fried noodles and egg) and fried rice with vegetables.
- Getting lost in the streets and reveling in the non-stop energy that surrounds the city, no matter what time of day…




